Tell Tale Signs of a Cheating Spouse.

The following is a guide to help you determine if your spouse may be cheating on you. After reviewing this article you may conclude that there are some "red flags" in your own personal circumstances. This may be grounds for suspicion but not for confrontation. It's best to keep your emotions in check and don't let your spouse suspect you think there's something going on. If they see your change in behaviour they may temporarily halt or increase their cloaking and going more "underground". It's easier for us to gather evidence when the alleged culprit thinks all is well. Better for you to contact Triangle for a free personal, discreet and confidential consultation. We are available 24/7 and ALWAYS ANSWER THE PHONE if you call. Remember, do not confront the cheater. This will only cause them to clean up their act and make it more difficult for the investigator or for you to catch them. Remember also, you may be wrong in your assumptions, but if not, you need to have enough proof to make your case, should it go to court. In any case, we suggest you speak to one of our agents.

1. At the beginning of an affair the cheating spouse usually pays more attention to their spouse. This is to offset the guilt they may be feeling or to divert attention from any other clues.
2. As the affair continues over time the cheating spouse will probably start to find faults and flaws with their spouse, to justify their own ill behaviour.
3. The cheating partner is more apt to not answer cell phones or text messages, claiming their battery died or it was in vibrate mode and they didn't notice.
4. Cheating spouses dramatically lose interest in family activities of all kinds, spending time with the kids, taking care of chores around the house etc.
5. If your intuition tells you there is something amiss then there's a high percentage chance you are correct. "When in doubt, hire Triangle investigators to check it out".
6. Cheating spouse typically change their bedroom behaviour, wanting unusually more or even less sex and requesting new positions or fetishes.
7. The cheating spouse treats everyone in the house differently, especially the spouse. They hope for a negative reaction so they can say in their mind that it's really not their fault that they must look elsewhere.
8. Another tell tale is the money. "Players need to be payers", so check banking, credit card and online transactions. Also look for stockpiles of cash squirreled away in socks, pockets, briefcases etc.
9. Cheaters' grooming habits usually change. They will suddenly start bathing and washing more often, using fragrances, brushing teeth, mouthwash, mints and gum.
10. Physical evidence tell-tales are: the classic lipstick on collar, unfamiliar odours of colognes/perfumes on shirts/blouses, wearing of new undergarments when going out, secretion stains in underwear, missing underwear, specific underwear laundering, phone numbers on pieces of paper that are unexplained, condoms or other birth control devices in their vehicle, purse or wallet, hair of various sorts that are definitely not from your family members or pets.
11. Strange computer and cell phone use. Sudden closing of screens, programs and monitors upon arrival. Extra email addresses. Passwords on everything that used to be fully open. Constant clearing of history on web browsers. Very late night surfing when everyone has gone to bed. Phone calls taken in the garage, car, backyard with a whisper voice.